From Mary Kay Letourneau to the most recent, there has been a string of news reports about female teachers having sex with their students over the past several decades (publicized case). Nearly every state in the United States is reporting similar cases, and everyone wants to know why. The most recent study (conducted by the United States Department of Education in 2004) on sexual predators revealed that forty percent of perpetrators of unwanted sexual attention toward children were women, and that percentage has steadily risen over the past nine years.

To comprehend why a female teacher would develop a sexual relationship with one of her students, one must comprehend her mental state. The majority of these women appear to be vibrant, normal, and healthy adult women, but they may actually feel like adolescents on the inside. Many of them have emotionally stunted development; they act and giggle like adolescents. What's odd is that they focus on one aspect of the student and idealize it as one of honesty, integrity, and innocence — distinct from the jaded perspectives of the adult world.

Soon, they will recognize this adolescent as being their age... a peer. This is commonly observed in psychology and is typically referred to as "counter-transference." The instructor romanticizes one aspect of the student, which she then projects onto her own distorted reality. Nobody else sees what the teacher has created in her mind in a realistic manner. After her student graduates from high school, it becomes so bizarre that the teacher begins to make plans for a marriage and children.

Consider that as a public, we tend to focus on the sexual aspect of this relationship because that is what ultimately leads to the teacher's arrest. However, an emotional connection typically develops well before sexual activity. That is, the grooming, the dates, the numerous texts, the adorable handwritten love letters, and the sleepless nights. If you create a safe environment for an intervention immediately, you can end the relationship before sex occurs, obtaining assistance for the child and taking legal action against the teacher.

The emotional component is rarely captured, and the reasons are numerous. Initially, the child typically does not speak. Perhaps he fears a poor grade, enjoys the additional attention, or feels guilty and/or fearful. Second, parents are typically not immediately (if at all) aware of it, as they may perceive the teacher's extra attention as an effort to help their child. Lastly, if other children do hear about it, they are typically confused, concerned about who to tell, and frequently deny believing it.

Our adolescents' lives are centered on school. The majority of female school employees serve as role models for our children and assist them in becoming successful, well-adjusted adults. Sexual abuse of any child is a horrifying experience, but when it occurs at school and involves a teacher, the outcome can be tragic. There are indicators that can alert parents to a problem with their child. As with all matters, it begins with an open dialogue in which you speak with and listen to your child. You cannot initiate a conversation about sexual boundaries if you are not actively involved in your child's daily life. Maintain an open line of communication with your child and discuss their school life frequently.

The majority of abuse begins with "grooming." If you observe your child engaging in any of the following activities and feel uneasy, it is time to have a conversation with your child:

The teacher of your child desires a friendship with your child, including outings.

The teacher of your child begins giving your child gifts that you find peculiar.

The teacher begins to compliment your child on specific shirts and clothing.

The teacher of your child makes an effort to get unusually close to you (the parent).

Your child's teacher begins to violate boundaries by hugging, touching, and rubbing his or her back.

Your child's teacher begins sharing private, confidential, or personal information with your child.

If you observe these behaviors in your child, you should begin limiting his or her time with the teacher. Discuss your child's relationship with his or her teacher in a secure and encouraging environment. Sexual abuse is a crime, and if it is occurring to your child, he or she is unquestionably a victim.

Expect them to feel fearful, evasive, and anxious. The most important thing to convey is that it is NOT their fault and that you will assist them.

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