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Why Milf Porn Is So Popular To Young Men

Moms seem to be very popular in the world of erotic fiction and porn. An example of a popular search term was MILF, which stands for "Mom I'd Like to Fuck." With over 40,000 videos, it was also the third most popular category in terms of views. Similarly, a search for MILF returns over 10,000 results in the erotica category of Amazon's Kindle store. When you consider the nature of men's sexual fantasies, it makes sense why MILFs have such a disproportionately large role in adult entertainment. For my book Tell Me What You Want, I polled more than 4,000 American adults about their fantasies, and the results showed that 88 percent of heterosexual men had previously harbored fantasies about MILFs. In addition, 42% of respondents said they frequently fantasize about MILFs. What is it about mothers that appeals to so many men?

We need to think about how MILFs are frequently portrayed in the world of porn in order to comprehend their appeal. According to research, these women are frequently portrayed in very different ways than are younger women. Researchers examined the content of 50 MILF videos and 50 teen videos pulled from some of the most well-known porn sites for a study that was published in the Journal of Sex Research. The main thing they discovered was that MILFs were given more dominant roles in both sexual and porn sex movies.

As opposed to the traditional gender roles that place women as the gatekeepers and men as the initiators of sex, MILF porn represents a significant reversal of those roles. MILFs were 2.5 times more likely to initiate sex than teenagers. Additionally, MILFs were much more likely to assume command of the situation. They were actually nine times more likely than teenagers to control the flow and content of sex. Additionally, MILFs were frequently shown to be more successful in their careers than their male partners, which was never the case in any of the teen videos. More specifically, it was revealed that more than four out of every five MILFs held high-status positions like those of manager, judge, or teacher. In contrast, men were typically portrayed as students or entry-level workers in MILF videos.

These results suggest that the idea of playing a submissive role to a strong and dominant woman may appeal to men more generally than MILF porn. My sexual fantasy data from Tell Me What You Want provide further evidence in favor of this hypothesis. I discovered that among straight men, having frequent MILF fantasies was associated with more fantasies of being forced into sex, sexually humiliated, and being sexually submissive.

It's important to note that heterosexual women who reported having more MILF fantasies were also more likely to have fantasies about being dominant, humiliating a partner, and forcing sex on someone else. In other words, both men and women appear to associate certain facets of BDSM with MILFs. Given that BDSM is one of the most prevalent sexual fantasy themes, it is possible that there are other means by which people try to fulfill their broader BDSM desires in addition to MILF scenarios. However, the attraction of MILFs isn't just driven by a desire for dominance and control. A fascinating finding I made was that men who fantasized about MILFs also tended to have higher levels of attachment anxiety, which indicates that they are less secure in their relationships.

They require a lot of assurance because they are concerned that their partner might leave. However, the fact that there is a link at all suggests that there is at least a small percentage of men who take some psychological comfort in the idea of a MILF. It should be noted that this was a small association, so being into MILFs is far from a reliable sign that a given guy is insecure. Men who are anxious about being rejected sexually often prefer to be with women who are assertive and make their interest in sex known. This implies that these guys don't have to put themselves in a vulnerable situation where they try to initiate sex but risk rejection. Men's MILF fantasies were linked more broadly to fantasies about wanting and being desired, which is in line with this theory.

Men were more likely to fantasize about breast milk if they fantasized about MILFs. This implies that some men's attraction to mothers may also be influenced by their breast milk fetishes. Finally, I discovered a connection between MILF fantasies and fantasies of gratifying a partner sexually. Given that MILFs aren't afraid to express their desires, another reason some guys might be drawn to MILFs is that it's just simpler to appease a woman who is open and honest about her sexual preferences. It's obvious that there is a very deep underlying psychology to the appeal of MILF porn and erotica, but it's also possible that different men are drawn to MILFs for very different reasons.

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