Techniques For Getting Your Wife Ready For Sex

What features do iPhones, TVs, and vibrators all share? When a button is pressed, they turn on. body doesn't. Is the bedroom starting to feel boring? Does your wife frequently turn down your advances? Or perhaps you simply want more sex because—well, why not? In any case, you can encourage your wife to relax. If you are reading this article, you are interested and prepared to put forth some effort. And that is a good beginning. I have 10 suggestions for you: HD sex movies

1. Recognize receptive desire Any pre-intercourse sexual activity is referred to as foreplay. That also implies that foreplay begins as soon as sex is over. In contrast to a last-minute decision, how you treat your wife every minute of the day will speak volumes. When you only display affection when you want sex, intimacy is not increased. In contrast to spontaneous desires, many women (but not all) have responsive desires. And when women feel sexy and wanted, they become turned on. It won't do any good to grope her once and then stop. Therefore, sow the seeds of desire. Show her how much you value her. There are many ways to do this, some examples include: tell her how attractive you really think she is, grab her by the back, kiss her neck (not just to start sex), go on dates with her, and most importantly, do this frequently. After all, romancing her shouldn't feel like work if you love and value her.

2. The Importance of Communication The key to any successful relationship is communication. Speak to your wife if you notice that she has a low libido. It can be intimidating to start "the talk" about sex, but it's important, and there are ways to do it that will make her feel respected and valued. She might be feeling low on sex drive for a variety of reasons. However, finding the cause can help you decide where to take action. Some of these things are: Physical factors include her prescription drugs and birth control pills, any sex-related pain she may experience, or underlying medical conditions like diabetes. She experiences hormonal changes during pregnancy, breastfeeding, menstruation, and menopause. psychological causes that develop when a person experiences stress, low self-esteem, or a bad sexual experience. Relationship problems such as a lack of connection, problems with trust, unresolved arguments, or poor sexual desire communication can be exacerbated.

3. Even if you already have mind-blowing sex, your wife will have more fun if you introduce sex toys into your bedroom. When having foreplay, vibrate. It will travel past her nipples and toward her pelvis before being pressed against her clitoral region. leaving her gasping for more as a result. A medical study found that many women don't orgasm from penetration alone during sex. In actuality, 70% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to ovulate. And it's clear why. This tiny hotspot has 8,000 nerve endings, making it a powerhouse of pleasure (and is much larger than what we see externally). So how do you stimulate her clit while using your penis to penetrate her? Come the cock rings that vibrate. One of the simplest and most enjoyable ways to spice up your sex sessions, both before and after, is with one of these vibrating toys. When having penetrating sex with your wife, they vibrate against her clitoris because they are worn around the base of your penis. You might even experience a harder and longer-lasting erection as a result. In fact, MysteryVibe's Tenuto is advertised as being exactly that—a vibrating cock ring made specifically for you and her pleasure. Tenuto is the first wearable vibrator for men; it differs from conventional vibrating cock rings. Tenuto uses the same principles as a conventional cock ring to stop blood flow to the penis, which causes a harder, more powerful erection. Tenuto has six motors strategically positioned around your penis, balls, and perineum (if you prefer) that send strong vibrations through you all, as well as two motors dedicated to her clit and vulva. This results in a firmer erection right away. Mutual pleasure and improved sensations result from a firmer erection and strong vibrations to both of your erogenous zones and hers. Both she and you experience more sensations. win-win situation.

4. Invest in sex furniture. It takes a lot of physical strength to carry out the deed. It's possible that you and your wife aren't as agile and fit as you once were. Or, if you're still in your 20s, fatigue and a host of other factors might affect your physical capabilities. You and your wife will enjoy sex more if you purchase some sex furniture, even something as basic as sex pillows. It supports lifting your hips and provides a rest for your neck. Even sex positions that might be challenging or exhausting for you to perform can be explored with it. For instance, bending over a pillow wedge will support your upper body if your arms tire during doggy style.

5. Think about choreplay A dead bedroom is primarily caused by stress. In a study conducted by a US-based medical practice network, 51% of participants stated that they are more likely to avoid having sex with their partner when they are stressed. So, don't delegate your wife to handle all of the household duties. It's easy. She will have more time and energy for sex if she isn't the sole caregiver at home. Don't just assist with chores if you expect something—like sex—in return. Sex is not a business deal. The goal is defeated if there is a sexual power struggle.

6. Be unplanned Sex typically takes place at night, when you've finished all of your daily tasks, the kids are in bed (or the dogs are asleep), and you're just about to fall asleep. It gradually begins to feel routine or, worse yet, obligatory—like a chore. And chores are always a bore. Instead, start having sex at random times of the day to make it more impromptu. She wouldn't know when to anticipate it, so it would keep her on her toes.

7. or arrange sexual encounters Scheduling sex is perfectly acceptable, especially if you're a busy person. It is unpleasant to engage in spontaneous sexual activity while you should be doing something else. You become distracted from the experience because you are preoccupied with that urgent email that needs an immediate response. When you lead busy lives, it can be difficult to find time for intimacy. Nothing will happen if you just wait for the right feeling to strike. She may not be feeling it, you may be working late, or both of you may simply be exhausted. So sit down with your partner and schedule some sex time. Additionally, scheduled sex gives you time to prepare for and anticipate it. Imagine how seductive it would be to undress your wife in her lace underwear.

8. Maintain your fitness. And by staying in shape, we mean being robust and healthy. (And definitely not about being a particular size or appearance.) Being physically fit increases sex life because it lowers stress. Workouts release endorphins (one of the happy hormones). You'll have more sex desire when you're happy. Additionally, it increases blood flow and self-esteem. Additionally, when your pelvic muscles are strong, your orgasms will likely be more powerful. Therefore, go to the gym with your wife! It can even turn into a wonderful time for bonding.

9. Play it up! Think of sex as a playground for adults. What similarities do games and sex share? They are enjoyable! Here are a few concepts: Sex dice is the game in which you roll the dice to determine whether you will kiss, suck, bite, or lick your partner's mouth, clit, or penis. Choose a card, then follow the instructions on it, such as face-sitting and fingering. Watch some porn together! Her watch history can be used to determine her sexual preferences.

10. Identify her language of love. A lot of the advice we provided above touched on various strategies you can use to perk her up. But which one functions the best? Which one should you pay the most attention to? Knowing and comprehending your wife's love language, or languages, enables you to communicate with her most effectively (and with her body). So, to enhance your sexual life, consider using the five love languages: Act of service: Give her favorite sex acts or behaviors top priority. Since oral sex is a selfless act of giving rather than receiving, it's a great way to show your wife how much you value and want her.

Enjoy the foreplay of physical contact. Create anticipation all day long by cuddling and massaging. Take your time kissing, stroking, and caressing each other during foreplay rather than hurrying from foreplay to sex. Words of affirmation: Be vocal! Congratulate her. Tell her what you appreciate about her physique. Dirty talk is a surefire way to get her attention (and yours at the same time). Quality time: Be present during communion. Make eye contact and be slow and sensual during sex because she will know if your thoughts are elsewhere.

Surprise her with sexy underwear, a vibrato, or anything else you think will make her heart race to liven up your bedroom sex activities. What's best? You will benefit as well, so indulge her. How would you discover her love language, then? Easy! She can take online tests like this one from 5LoveLanguages, as can you. Of course, quiz results aren't everything. You are the one who knows yourself the best, and you must understand your wife well. However, they could help you better understand both you and your partner. Takeaway Sex is a long race. not a race. It's healthy and normal to put some thought into how to make your wife feel special. Fortunately, a lot of options exist besides those on this list. Get inspired and creative; after all, you are the one who knows you and your wife the best.

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