Where to put your hands, how to use your tongue, and other advice. Whatever you call it—a blow job, fellatio, giving head, or going down—it doesn't require a PhD in anatomy to comprehend why having oral sex with someone who has a penis might feel amazing. When combined with the sounds and visuals of the act, the warm and wet feeling of a mouth on a penis' nerve-rich shaft and head can be insanely pleasurable. Receiving a beating is satisfying, but giving a head can also be rewarding.

One explanation is that when you engage in oral sex, an erotic interplay of dominance and submission occurs. As the host of the Drive Him Wild With Pleasure video course, sexologist Jessica "Dr. Jess" O'Reilly, PhD, explains to Health, "On the one hand, your partner has the power to thrust into your mouth and throat, but on the other hand, you have all the power because your teeth are close to their most sensitive parts." She adds that there is also the excitement of witnessing your partner enjoy themselves. Given the advantages of both giving and receiving blow jobs, it pays to learn some tips for enhancing their level of comfort, excitement, and orgasm. Sex HD Vietnamese

The authors of Read Me: A Parental Primer for "The Talk," Dr. Jess and board-certified sexologist Lanae St. John, offer the following top advice. Start using a variety of methods You probably already know this, but unless your partner likes it, blow jobs don't actually involve blowing on the penis to, say, cool off soup. Instead, blow jobs typically involve some combination of licking, sucking, kissing, deep-throating, and hand action, according to Dr. Jess, who spoke to Health.

Everyone has different preferences, so rather than focusing on technique, she advises asking each person what they prefer. It's probably simplest if you can ask your partner directly about their preferences. Giving a blow job, however, can occasionally be more of a fact-finding mission where you have to test things out and see how your partner reacts. Dr. Jess advises trying the following: Clamp down for added pressure, tuck your lips behind your teeth, and then slide up and down the shaft. Another suggestion is to flick your tongue along the frenulum, the delicate notch of skin on the underside of the head, or against the tip of the penis.

You'll be able to tell from your partner's reaction whether they like light pressure here and if it's okay to move on to putting the entire head in your mouth, or whether they would prefer that you concentrate more on the shaft. A note regarding deep-throating "There's a misconception that in order to deliver a satisfying blow job, you must be able to deep-throat. But that's not accurate," Dr. Jess argues. "Your lover won't be as happy if you're worried about gagging, uncomfortable, or not having fun." If you want to try putting the head and shaft in your mouth but are concerned that you will gag, just move slowly and stop whenever you feel the gag reflex starting to take over. employ your hands A blow job involves more than just the mouth. In fact, incorporating hand movements introduces a new degree of pressure and sensation, amplifying the pleasure your partner is already experiencing.

In addition, it's a good option if deep throating doesn't appeal to you. It will produce a similar sensation to use your hands to stroke the shaft while using your tongue and lips only on the tip, the expert claims. Another useful tip is to switch to making a fist around the shaft and moving it up and down or gently cupping your partner's balls in your hand when your mouth or jaw start to feel tired. Play with each other's balls and other things. Speaking of testicles, it makes sense if you focus primarily on the penis. Not to mention the anus, perineum, and other nearby erogenous areas like the balls.

The testicles are incredibly dense in nerves, according to Dr. Jess. She advises that if you want to impress your partner, try using your mouth to create a sucking sensation against the delicate skin or massaging the balls with your hand. The perineum, which is the region between the testicles and the anus, can also be licked or caressed. (Since not everyone enjoys action, go slowly or ask first.) The prostate, also known as the male G-spot because of how intensely stimulated it can feel, can be triggered by pressing here with your thumb or the flat edge of your tongue. Dr. Jess advises, "Try using a vibrating toy against this spot." According to Dr. Jess, you can also use your finger or tongue to stimulate your partner's anus while you are performing a blow job.

Get express consent before incorporating rimming or anal fingering because some people get uncomfortable having their anus handled. But if your partner agrees, be confident that you will astound them. Try out different positions. Other than on your knees or with your partner lying flat, there are other ways to deliver a blow job. Your partner is welcome to recline with their legs up or bent. Alternately, have them lay on their stomach with their hips raised and their legs spread apart while you crouch behind them and deliver a blow from behind. Dr. Jess suggests "the giraffe," which involves your partner straddling you while they are standing, and you lying on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed.

She suggests that you also try the "facesitter," in which your partner kneels over your lips while you are lying on your back. Try the classic 69 or even the sideways 69, where you are both on your sides but looking in different directions, for mutual enjoyment. You can either swallow or spit. The idea that spitters give up easily is untrue. There is absolutely no pressure to swallow if you don't want to, according to Dr. Jess. It could be that you dislike the taste of sperm, or that you find other parts of your body to be more seductive for your partner to orgasm in. She claims that any justification is acceptable. There are a few alternatives if swallowing doesn't appeal to you. You can direct your partner's attention to a specific area (such as "I want it all over my chest" or "I want to see you finish in your hand"), catch the semen in your mouth and spit it into a towel, or request that your partner use a flavored condom. If you decide to swallow, Dr. Jess has some tips to make the process more enjoyable.

When they arrive, she suggests, "take the penis deep into your throat and gaze seductively into their eyes." Alternatively, only suck on your head when your partner says you two are getting close so you can control how much at a time you swallow. Prioritize your own pleasure In the bedroom, mutual pleasure is always a plus. Ask your partner to turn you on while giving a blow job; have them talk to you inappropriately or express their feelings; or suggest adding a vibrator or vibrating ring to the mix, which you can press against your clitoris or place in your vagina to get you both closer to orgasm. Above all, remember to always abide by the golden rule of blow jobs: only give one when both you and your partner want to. According to St. John, you are not required to perform any act you don't want to or give anyone the blow job. Any partner who makes you feel obligated to give one probably isn’t a keeper. St. John says, "There are many other acts and activities you can partake in to experience (mutual) sexual pleasure.

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