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It's no joke the effect this year has had on us, and the final leg was particularly challenging. For a lot of people, the lack of sunlight, the sense of impending doom from not knowing when the day will end, and the sheer tedium of the days have killed their libido. Your love life (or lack thereof) and sexual activities (or lack thereof) have probably come under scrutiny in 2021. Sexuality Expert Caroline D'Arcy offers 10 suggestions for getting your love life back on track after lockdown, whether you've been staring at the same person and wondering, "Is this really it?," or you're craving human touch more than ever before.

1. First, date yourself. It's time to investigate this version of you because you are not the same person you were a year ago. What foods pique your interest? Which music do you enjoy? What would you do if $10,000 landed in your bank account every day for the rest of your life? Why? What kind of sex do you want to have? What type of touch causes your body to melt?

2. De-stress It's been a stressful year, and stress will prevent you from feeling turned on. At one point, even going to the store for groceries caused my anxiety to spike. The good news is that even when your stressors (work, kids, bills, a global pandemic) are still present, you can learn to reduce the impact on your body by ending the stress cycle and bringing your body to a safe place. Some of my favorite activities include running, exercising, punching a pillow, watching an emotional movie (Lion does it for me), yoga, masturbation, and journaling. If you want to learn more, look into Emily Nagoski's book Burn Out.

3. Be accountable for your erection. Your body and brain will get used to orgasming in the same way if you've been using your favorite vibrator for the past 12 months. Change up your sex positions with your sex toy, train your body to respond to various types of touch, and include sex toys in your playtime to relieve your partner's tongue pressure as you transition to a human.

4. energize yourself sexually. You've been taught that the task of turning you on belongs to your partner. Before you go there, my rule is to get dialed up, hot, and juicy. Arriving in a place where you are "turned on" sets the tone of the date deliciously, regardless of whether it is your first date, downloading an app, or your 50th wedding anniversary.

5. Breathe slowly Your nervous system is used to low levels of stimulus, such as the same walls, people, and Zoom faces. Although it feels exciting to fill your calendar with dates, catch-ups, and pub lunches, give yourself more time for recovery afterward. Make room for the fact that it might feel a little intimidating and exhausting.

6. Organize your closet. Do you get sexy in your clothes? Your favorite jeans might be a little snug. Or, like me, do you only ever seem to alternate between wearing yoga pants that are outside and inside that are a little more worn-out? Throwing away anything that doesn't feel good to wear is a delicious exercise because your clothes can have a significant impact on how you feel. Ask yourself, "Does this item turn me on?," and if not, toss it. This is Marie Kondo with a sensual edge.

7. Request the thing you want the most. Tell your partner what makes you sexy in real life. Because of conditioning and experiences, it is simple to freeze, shut down, and move on during these situations. Many women, including myself, find this to be completely normal. Write it down, text it to them, or write it in a letter as practice. Find out more here about how to ask for what you want in bed.

8. Consider batteries Similar to the positive and negative poles of the batteries in your vibe, desires originate from a place of polarity. It's time to learn more about masculine and feminine energy if you're feeling more like flatmates than lovers or can't seem to move past the friendzone/fuck buddy stage. We all have masculine "doing" energy and feminine "being" energy; don't be misled by the gendered terms. Working from home may indicate that all of us are engaged in masculine "doing" energy. To rekindle that spark, learn how to switch back and forth between the two.

9. Prepare for a date like a Tantric goddess. Tantrics all over the world are skilled at producing the most exquisite, seductive experiences, and it all begins with preparation. Finish the stress cycle to reduce stress (see no.2) With embodiment techniques like dancing, breast massage for more feminine energy, or push-ups, breathwork, or running for more masculine energy, you can activate the energy you want. Increase your energy by self-touching and even edging (getting as close to an orgasm as possible without going over). Put on jewelry, colognes, and outfits that make you feel attracted to you. then arrive with no preconceived notions. The turn on will be stifled if you focus on goals or whether the other person approves of you.

10. The key to a successful (sex) life is variety. Contrary to what we have been taught and told, female bodies crave novelty and variety in sexual experiences more than male bodies do. This is important to understand because it explains why our interest wanes in long-term relationships. While this does not require you to enter into swinging or a poly relationship if you don't want to, it does highlight the need for variety and the possibility that recent monotony has negatively impacted your libido. Doors are opening up, so this is the ideal time to experiment with new sex objects, settings, and rituals to jump-start your romantic life.

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