1. Show enthusiasm. The most important guideline for giving good head is to genuinely want to give good head. The main issue clients have with blow jobs, according to Marin, has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with their partner's enthusiasm for the procedure. If the recipient is aware that their partner is having a good time, they will too. (Awww!) Anderson continues, "There is a big difference between someone doing this for me because I like it and someone who is actually turned on by giving oral sex. "Ninety percent of it is whether someone is sincere and motivated to please them." This is not to say that you should act as though you enjoy doing something in the bedroom if you don't. (In that vein, never comply with a sexual partner's request simply because it makes you uncomfortable.) But the best thing you can bring to the BJ party is a positive attitude if you're thinking about going down on someone, which, if you're reading this article, it seems like you are. Here are a few techniques for expressing your enthusiasm: Vietnamese porn movies

2. Add your hands to the action. Although a blow job may qualify as oral sex, your mouth is not required to perform all the necessary tasks. The mouth, in my opinion, provides wetness, and your hands, in my opinion, provide tightness, says Marin. After a few minutes of work, if your jaw begins to hurt or feel fatigued, you're probably sucking with your mouth too forcefully. As a result, transfer some of the work to your hands and rely on their pressure. Once you've warmed up a little, try this basic stroke: You can keep your mouth closed and move your wet hand up and down separately if their penis is larger than average. After that, you can experiment a little with your hand technique. Wrist Twist: Try it out. Move your hand up and down while rotating your firm wrist in clockwise circles with your mouth on the penis (this is still oral sex). Once you've gotten your bearings, use your other hand to join the game. Focus on more than just your penis, advises Anderson. Some people prefer having their leg touched while having their nipples stimulated, making the experience more sensory-rich overall. whenever possible Squeeze the balls gently in the cup.

3. Do not be hesitant to include spit (lots of it). My partner instructed me to spit on the guy during one of the first blow jobs I ever gave (to a man I had been dating for five months, so we were very at ease with one another). I was initially startled, but I quickly realized he just preferred it extra wet. Although everyone has their own, er, preferred levels of moisture, I've discovered that most people concur that a good blow job requires a lot of saliva. Whenever the penis begins to feel a little dry, try to do some **sexy** spitting (read: make it subtle) without going overboard to the point where your hand starts to slide all over the place. In light of this, it wouldn't hurt to keep a glass of water handy to prevent dry mouth—you never know when you might need it.

4. Try to keep your tongue as loose and soft as possible. Your tongue provides the warmth, texture, and wetness that they can only get from a blow job. Both Anderson and Marin advise using your tongue to trace the head and frenulum—the underside where the penis head (if circumcised) meets the shaft—while moving up and down (which constitutes the majority of your job) to enhance this sensation. Expect your partner to lose it in those two areas, especially the frenulum, which is dense with nerve endings. Additionally, you can perform a few tongue flicks or lick from the very bottom of the shaft to the very tip and back down again.

5. Pretend to say the word "purple" as you are about to. I wish I could remember the name of the expert I learned this tip from, but it became my go-to signature move early on in my career as a women's magazine writer. (I almost don't want to share it, but better blow jobs for all...) Try to maintain a fish-faced smile while sucking; pretend to be about to say "purple." Your lips automatically contort into the ideal head-giving pout when you say that word; they are slightly pillowy and curled, which makes them feel wetter and creates the ideal suction

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