When women come to me for a boudoir photo session, one of the things I frequently hear from them is, "Oh, it's not for me, it's just for my partner." However, when we dig deeper and start talking, it usually boils down to something like, "Well, I actually really wanted to do it for myself," or "I wanted to find my sexual self again. Vietsub Sex Movies

For those of you who may not be familiar with the term, boudoir photography is an intimate style of photography that enables women to rediscover their femininity, sexuality, and a deeper sense of self-acceptance. If this piques your interest, you can view some examples of my work on this website or on my Instagram. It made me ponder something.

Why do women still feel more comfortable claiming that the purpose of their sensual portrayals is to please a man rather than their own pleasure in today's society? Sexual Shame Is Pervasive Sexual shame is pervasive. From mother to daughter, it is passed down through the generations.

Women have historically relied on their sexuality to survive. Everyone in the area traded, offered, used, and mishandled it. We were called whores, shamed, and even killed for daring to reclaim it and use it for our benefit or pleasure. Sexuality is still not an open topic of conversation in the majority of families today.

If a girl dares to express an interest in her own sexuality, they are frequently referred to as "sluts." There is frequently a subliminal message that a woman exists to please the man and is only there for his pleasure. Because of the lack of sexual education and open discussion, there is mystery, and everything that is unknown and mysterious is frightening.

Without ever having the courage to venture into the uncharted territory of sexual sovereignty, so many women have chosen to retreat into the security of the well-known narrative and the comfort of the status quo. The victimizing continues.

Some women also have a propensity to point the finger at men, attempting to hold them accountable for the shame they endure. If this is you, sister, know that I feel your pain because it was once my pain. My hurt woman was in a rage. But blaming never results in a solution.

We must acknowledge that this system, in which a woman's sexuality is not her own, is one that we all helped to create. where her body is not her own, where the gift of her virginity is being given. Where the energy of life creation itself should be suppressed and its fire stifled is where an aspect of her being, the most sacred and potent one, exists. Nobody has the authority to force us to believe something against our will.

Some people may find this upsetting, but healing won't be complete until we accept full responsibility for our part in co-creating it. We'll be confined to playing the victim and blaming men. A victim is powerless by definition.

Staying in the victim mindset keeps us frozen in a helpless state, waiting for the outside world to intervene and change our circumstances. The more women choose to question the status quo, why we say the things we say, and why we do the things we do, the more power they will have and the more consciousness they will bring to all facets of their lives, including their sexuality.

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